What Makes a Person Attractive?

A lot of people have different beliefs of what would make a person attractive. The common belief is looks and appearances, the other common belief is personality. Yet a lot of people are really lost when it comes to what makes a person attractive.

Believe it or not, it is not a person's mere genetic make up that makes the person attractive. That goes for both men and women. Guys, be honest with yourself, how many times have you seen that one lady who is technically "hot." She has the right features and the pretty face but somehow she just doesn't do it for you? Also, what about that less attractive lady, who just gets your attention and interest. Or what about that one fat, or otherwise not physically attractive man or woman who has tons of people of the opposite sex gathering around them?

A lot of people say looks do matter. Yes, looks do matter, but it is not the genetics that matters. It is more what you do with it. The "looks" that matter is more how you dress, and how you act. If you show yourself to be comfortable with yourself and know how to act in situations you will likely to attract more friends and mates. Ladies, imagine for yourself a Brad Pitt, or Denzel Washington, who is uptight, walks like he's got something lodged up in his ass, hunches over, has no sense of humor and complains all of the time, not to mention he dresses like a bum.

Oooooo!!! Not so attractive anymore. Men, think of Beyonce, or Megan Fox doing the very same thing. Just imagine those two women walking like gorillas. Not so attractive? If they still are, to each they're own I guess.

The thing that makes the attractive is that they know how to work what they have. A lot of people complain that they are all alone because they don't have the genetics. You don't really need the genetics, you need the attitude. The attitude is, you know you are not perfect but you accept yourself and you are making yourself better in every way you can.

A big part of attraction is the person's overall outlook. Beliefs, thoughts and memories emanate from the very being. This would explain why you often feel certain "vibes" around someone. You often get the feel of who a person is and everything that person went through before you meet that person. That would explain why there are some people who you feel like you must get away from and others you like to be around.

Attraction is not what many people make them out to be. There are good genes but there are ugly expressions that people make that can make even supermodel repulsive. The key to being attractive is that you have to know who you are, what you stand for, and you have to be true to that.